Bringing the past back is just an excuse to avoid moving forward. Clear your mind! You can feel more at ease by letting go of issues that have been worrying you in a rational way. Say what you think!
You are taking a step back from the course of your projects. This is what allows you to make healthy decisions about your future.
You will be able to advance your projects. It's time to finish things and make decisions so you can start again later.
Take a good look at your need for perfection and don't attack others. To err is human.
You will understand some of your partner's deepest motives. You will realize the need to turn the page on previous habits.