Reassess the situation differently and don't keep silent about what you want. You need to assert yourself. Psychologically, you are at your best! Resuming some non-physical leisure activity would be a good choice.
You will find great satisfaction in your relationship and you will find solid and positive support to carry out your projects.
You may end up in conflict with a person close to you. If you stay calm, you will get through this, as long as you also maintain objectivity.
Don't go out of your way to try to keep up with some of your peers. They work hard, but that doesn't mean they're effective.
Your love of life becomes a game in the broadest sense. Verbal bickering is definitely interesting and your quick thinking allows you to spice up your relationship in a good way.